Having an open sexual relationship that involves wife sharing can be very attractive to many otherwise monogamous couples. Even if you love your partner deeply and are primarily committed to him or her, there is nothing wrong with needing extra spice in the bedroom. Fantasising about your partner or yourself with another person is very common and can be a highly arousing experience, especially if that fantasy is shared with your partner.
Still, it can be difficult to take the first step into wife sharing, and there is good reason for this. Wife sharing should never be recklessly indulged in by any couple without careful consideration. No matter how wild and exciting your fantasies may have appeared, the reality may be an entirely different ball game. No pun intended.
Before jumping into wife sharing with both feet, talk things over with your partner in depth. Find out his or her thoughts on the subject, fantasies about wife sharing, and level of comfort. The more open you are to discussing things with your partner and coming to a mutually acceptable middle ground, the better your wife sharing experiences will go and the more successful they will be.
Depending on your levels of comfort and emotional maturity, it may or may not be a good idea to wife share with the same couple more than once. If either you or your partner knows that their emotional state is sometimes fragile and easily affected by others, you can still wife share, but you'll need to keep your partners diverse and varied to ensure that no one becomes more attached to anyone else than they should.
If, on the other hand, you are both quite emotionally stable, secure in your relationship, and happy with your partner, you may find that choosing just one or two couples to wife share with can be the most fulfilling proposition. This arrangement will allow you to become friends with the couples with whom you are sharing, get to know them intimately, and enjoy each other even more. Some very deep friendships can develop between two couples who are both happy in their separate relationships yet open to exploring each other intimately and sexually.
When wife sharing, it's important to always practise safe sex. No matter how decent you, your partner, or the people with whom you are wife sharing may be, when engaging in sexual activity outside of your relationship, there is always a risk of health complications. This risk can be entirely avoided or at least drastically minimised by being aware of and engaging in safe sexual practises. Condoms are an important addition to any wife-sharer's handbag as is an in-depth knowledge of and familiarity with safe sexual practises.
